Category: Mind & Body

Covid made me confront racial trauma

The year of 2020 marks the start of a global pandemic and the year which saw more black lives innocently taken through police brutality and racism. For me personally, it will also be the year that I finally confronted my painful past with racism and how that has shaped and affected me today.

It is no coincidence that 2020 also saw, thankfully, the rise of more mental health charities for black and mixed-race people. It was a result of this that gave me the chance to learn more about racial trauma, which inspired me to then speak to others in more detail about their experiences. Along the way I had the opportunity to speak to experts in racial trauma and all of this can be read in my latest feature for Black Ballad.

Black Ballad: Beyond Survival: Racial Trauma, Radical Self-Care & Our Healing As Resistance

Content warning: this article includes experiences of racist harassment, mention of suicide and self-harm.

I hope readers who have experienced racial trauma can find comfort in the stories shared and are able to take on the practical advice given from the incredible therapists who feature in this piece. I also hope that those who call themselves an ally, can gain an insight into how racism can affect ones mental and physical wellbeing.

Thank you for reading,
Chloe x


6 ways to stick to your fitness goals after a sleepless night

Over the last 4 years I’ve had my share of sleepless nights thanks to my little one, but regardless of having children or not, we’ve all experienced nights when we just can’t switch off and sleep. Those nights can be incredibly frustrating when you want to keep up with your fitness goals, but are seriously lacking in energy. Here are a few strategies I’ve adopted to help keep on track with my health goals despite the lack of sleep.

1. Walk
You may not have the energy to attend your usual circuits class, but could you head out for a walk instead? Walking in my opinion is an extremely underrated form of exercise. It’s a great fat burner, gentle to do (so ideal if you’ve not had much sleep) and has many health benefits. Plus, it can give you the opportunity to get some fresh and clear your head.

2. Eat healthy
It can be tempting to reach for foods high in sugar when we feel tired, but once that sugar high has faded, you’ll be left feeling even worse than you did before. Do your best to eat healthy and nutritious foods on days when you feel exhausted and make this your goal if you’re unable to stick to your usual workout plan.

3. Make a food plan
I’ve had nights that have left me feeling sick with tiredness and on those days I’ve learnt to accept it’s ok to say ‘not today workout’. Use the time you were going to spend exercising, on meal planning and prep instead. This is a great way to keep on top of your fitness goals without causing any potential injuries attempting to exercise when you’re exhausted. Pick a new recipe to try in the week, do an online shop full of healthy foods or write down what healthy meals you can make using ingredients you’ve already got in the cupboards.

4. Catch up on cooking
Similarly to the above, if you’ve had one or more awful night’s and feel dizzy as it is, take the time off to get your energy back. If you have little ones that can help with some cooking, use it as a time to make something healthy together – it could be lunch for the day, or a healthy cake recipe. I’m a big fan of oat muffins, banana pancakes and mug cakes! Or use it as time to do some batch cooking

5. Do a shorter workout
Only you can say whether it’s physically safe to attempt some exercise and if you do attempt it, remember it’s ok to just do a little bit. You may have set out to exercise for 45 mins, but remember you can achieve a lot in 15 minutes too. On occasions when i’ve felt a little foggy but have completed a shorter workout than normal, it has actually left me feeling pretty good and re-energised. Try an online HITT workout, a light jog or do some yoga. 

6. Go back to bed
Sleep is just as vital for good health as exercising, so if you’ve had a bad night’s sleep and feel terrible, make it a priority to catch up on sleep and give yourself a rest day (or two). If you are able to have a nap then do so, or get yourself to bed early that night. 

5 ways to keep exercising this Winter

As the weather turns colder it can be far too tempting to put off the usual fitness regime, in favour of cozying up on the sofa with a blanket. While I’ll be doing plenty of the latter, I’m keen to keep up my workouts during winter to stay fit, healthy and to achieve my own weight loss goals. If you’re with me and want to do a bit of both, read on for 5 ways to keep exercising this winter!

5 ways to stay fit in winter

1. Team up with a friend
This is a good one to do all year round. Teaming up with a friend to exercise, more often than not, makes you stick to your workout of choice – even when it’s cold.

2. Upgrade your winter workout wardrobe
This isn’t just an excuse to go shopping (although it’s a good excuse in my book). Making sure you have appropriate workout clothes also helps you to stick to you fitness regime. It could be a new set of gym clothes, that you’ll want to show off, get use out of or feel comfortable in; or winter specific items if your favourite exercise means being outside. For example, I love jogging so my new winter kit includes running gloves, a hat, and a warm but lightweight high vis jacket.

3. Put the date in the diary
Whether you make a note of it on your phone’s calendar or on paper, setting a date to workout also means you’re more likely to stick to it.

4. Sign up to a gym or indoor classes
You don’t have to spend money getting fit, but having the financial commitment and a place to exercise inside are both good motivators for keeping active as it gets colder. Plus, local leisure centres usually offer a ‘pay as you go’ membership and there are a growing number of ‘cheap’ gym clubs around.

5. Home workouts
Lastly, set a date to do some exercise in the comfort of your living room. There are tons of online/YouTube workout videos, with many being free. I’m a fan of The Body Coach videos and any beginners yoga session I can find. I also like the YouTube channel Cosmic Kids, it’s yoga with fun stories, so that I can do some stretching with my daughter or at least keep her entertained while I do it! Other exercises you can do without heading out include classic resistance moves such as press up, sit ups/crunches and squats.

Weight Watchers helped me rediscover exercise

I’ve recently had the pleasure to feature in a photo shoot with my daughter Eleri for WeightWatchers magazine! I’m delighted to share a few photos from the day and how WeightWatchers continues to help me lead a healthier and fitter lifestyle.

Chloe: Weight Watchers helped me rediscover exercise

Keep an eye out the next issue of the WeightWatchers magazine to see me, my little girl and to read my story.

#WW5kMyWay Complete!

Following on from my appearance in the Weight Watchers magazine all about my taking part in #WW5kMyWay last year, I’m happy to share that I have completed the fun challenge once again!

Last year I walked 5k with fellow Weight Watchers members and this year I ran 5k with my ultimate bestie and fitness buddy. Here’s a photo of us once we had finished, another of me looking far too happy holding a piece of paper and a snap from insta!


I’m in the Weight Watchers magazine!

If you follow me on Instagram, twitter or Facebook you would have seen some very chuffed posts this week about my appearance in the June issue of the Weight Watchers magazine. I am absolutely thrilled to be featured and I still can’t get over the fact that I’m actually in the magazine. 

If you’ve not seen those posts here’s what it’s all about… last year I took part in an event called #WW5Kmyway. The idea was to complete a 5k in any style you wanted. Be it walking, running, swimming, dancing, whatever! My lovely Weight Watchers Coach teamed up with a fellow Weight Watchers group and together we walked 5k on a very hot summer’s day. The event really gave me the fitness boost I needed.

Pick up a copy of the Weight Watchers magazine asap to find out more about the event and my full story; plus here’s how to get involved with this year’s #WW5kmyway.

Chloe x

A PureGym review

I’ve been in search of a new place to workout and I have finally ended up at my local PureGym. Here’s how I’ve been getting on at this mega cheap gym chain.

What is PureGym?
PureGym is a chain of gyms that offers super low cost memberships. There are clubs all over the country and many are open 24 hours.

I had heard good things about the gym chain and could never believe how cheap the membership is in comparison to others – subconsciously I perhaps thought the price meant that the gym would be super basic, but I was wrong.

My local PureGym
Equipment wise I would never spot the difference between this gym and another where you may end up paying triple the price; and did you know that PureGym membership includes a ton of fitness classes too? From spinning to kettlebell to dance classes – the range is amazing and I’ve really enjoyed trying as many new ones as possible.

PureGym gym review
I’ve been really impressed with PureGym and absolutely love all the classes – especially spinning. With the cost being low I also don’t feel guilty if for some reason I can’t make it to the gym, but that said I think it’s actually had the opposite effect; I’m going way more than I had intended because I can’t get over how cheap it is and how much you get included.

However, I am absolutely pants in knowing what to do in the weights section, so next job is to get au fait with the dumbbells and get my squat on! Perhaps I need to book some one-on-one sessions with one of the many Personal Trainers at the club, who all seem lovely too!

Cons of PureGym
I wouldn’t usually notice this and I’m really not a picky person but my particular club has an awful carpark – there are no clear spaces and it looks as though the ground itself needs resurfacing urgently. I’m also a bit suspicious of the air con in the Spinning studio – does it actually work? They say it’s on but I think that’s debatable! There’s no pool either, which doesn’t bother me, but just a heads up if swimming if your thing.

Would you recommend PureGym?
I would definitely recommend PureGym to anyone looking for a friendly and well equipped place to work out. Nice one PureGym, keep doing what you’re doing.

Being body positive

This year I set myself a couple of New Year’s resolutions. Some I broke quite quickly and others I’m continuing to practice, one of which includes being ‘body positive’. If you’re wondering what, why and how, then read on.

“It’s a sign from a greater power!”
While browsing through my ‘recommendations’ on ASOS, a bright pink book appeared and on the front was a girl with a big smile and amazingly colourful hair. Seeing this picture instantly cheered me up and so I was intrigued to find out what it was exactly.

Body Positive Power by Megan Jayne Crabbe aka @bodyposipanda
When I enlarged the photo I was sucked in by the tagline “How to stop dieting, make peace with your body and live”. Some may say discovering this book was just down to a very clever shopping algorithm, but I say it was a sign from a greater power telling me to snap out of my body shaming ways!

Megan Jayne Crabbe bravely shares her own body image issues which led to anorexia and – during her years of ‘recovery’ – episodes of binge eating and yo yo dieting; until she found body positivity. She tells readers how she’s finally escaped the ‘cult of thin’ and details what the body positive movement means.

I bought the book as an early Christmas present to myself, but have only been reading it since the New Year. A few chapters in and I have felt liberated, a desire to wear the clothes i’ve been telling myself I’ll buy when I drop 3 dress sizes and an urge to dye my hair pink! I’ve not done the last one yet but these pages have been touching, emotional, inspiring and challenging.

If this was a complete book review, i’d say BRILLIANT, 5 STARS!
I’ve not finished reading Megan’s book, so this isn’t a complete book review, but it has made me think very differently towards diet, exercise and my past weight loss experiences. All of which has left me feeling motivated to beat my obsession with being ‘thin’ and the constant guilt I have when eating.

Instead, I’d love to learn/ re-learn (because i’m genuinely interested in it) more about good nutrition and healthy eating. In the meantime, I’ll work on accepting what i’ve got and enjoying everything else around me; because I’ve spent far too many years overthinking and stressing about food and my weight. That said, I’ll still be blogging about it for many years to come!

One step at a time eh!

Thanks for reading,
Chloe x

My year as a buggy runner in 7 photos

With Christmas just around the corner and 2018 approaching fast, it feels natural to do a bit of reminiscing and today I would like to review my year as a buggy runner.

Before having the phil&teds Sport buggy, I was so frustrated not being able to exercise in the way that I wanted. I was keen to shift my post-baby weight and enjoy a bit of ‘me-time’ working out. However, finding the time and child care to go for a jog or hit the gym wasn’t always easy. Thanks to this simple buggy, I was able to combine my fitness goals with looking after my little girl, and keeping her thoroughly entertained on our many running adventures.

Here are a few photos that are special to me and capture my journey from complete buggy runner novice to feeling super confident with this superb set of wheels. I genuinely love this phil&teds running buggy as it’s helped me to lose weight, regain my fitness and enjoy new adventures with my daughter – which in turn has encouraged me to feel a bit more like the ‘pre-baby’ me, if that makes any sense!

1. On a high after my first buggy run that went very smoothly!

2. When I got to my weight loss goal!

3. Feeling so confident with my new running buggy that the endorphins encouraged me to take this sweaty post-run selfie! This was the moment I decided to sign up to a 10k run, feeling certain I’d be able to complete training now I had some new phil&teds wheels for my little one.

4. One of the first times I realised my jogging seemed to be inspiring my daughter to take up running too!

5. Running 10k in under an hour after training with my phil&teds sport buggy. Such a fantastic, and challenging day. I really didn’t think I’d be able to run long distances after having my daughter, I love that a simple buggy helped me to regain my fitness and so much more.

6. Moving house and exploring new running routes – so thankful this buggy is suited for all terrains! You may notice a difference between this shot and some of my earlier running views.

7. Ending the year with a family Santa fun run!

 

Santa buggy run complete!

Hello December! This weekend I’ve felt extremely Christmassy – the decorations are up, baubles are on the tree and my daughter completed her first Santa run!

The 3k route was just a few laps around our local park and my little one actually did run most of the course. We were by no means the fastest but it was a lot of fun. Half way round my daughter decided to motivate fellow Santa joggers by singing every nursery rhyme she knew at the top of her voice!

It was such a great event and lovely to see my girl give it her all as the crowd cheered her on. She hopped in our phil&teds running buggy a few times, but she mostly wanted to run herself. I’m so glad we did it with the buggy though, as I wasn’t sure how quickly we would all start running or what my daughter would be like in a structured run event; having the buggy meant we could still run if she was tired and she had a comfy seat to rest in while the race got going. I absolutely love how big the basket is on the phil&teds Sport running buggy and for the run it was packed with extra layers, snacks and toys just in case we needed them. Plus, compared to other buggies, it’s so easy to manoeuvre, great on all surfaces and keeps wonderfully steady when you up the pace with it.

As we approached the finish line my daughter decided it was best to complete the run in the buggy. As we jogged a little faster towards the end, my cheeky husband decided to make a break for it so that he could say he beat me! We’ll get him next year! My daughter also decided one guy in particular was the ‘real’ Santa, I have no idea why but her reaction to him was quite hilarious. We also learnt that she doesn’t like it when me and daddy wear Santa beards!

I’d definitely recommend getting involved in your local Santa run and it looks as though more more events like these are thankfully becoming pushchair friendly.

Here’s to another week trying my best to live a healthy lifestyle! As always, thank you for reading.

Chloe x
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